My Confession by Annabel Bruges

My Confession by Annabel Bruges

I have this amazing full-length dress that makes me shudder in excitement when I see it. The memory of the first time I wore it out is etched onto my erotic brain. Made wholly of…

Tattoos – colour me beautiful, a passion for ink

Tattoos – colour me beautiful, a passion for ink

For many years, getting a tattoo was seen as an act of rebellion, westerners who wore tattoos in prominent places tended to come from ‘edgy’ portions of society: teddy boys, Hells Angels and rock musicians.…

Meeting Jason, Guest Post by Marcel Yeung

Meeting Jason, Guest Post by Marcel Yeung

Content note: rough sex, name calling (faggot, slut), D/s play. I looked up at him, trying to read his face. I couldn’t tell if he seemed pleased with my performance, but his eyes held mine…

Protected: Ode, Part 1

Protected: Ode, Part 1

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is “the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queer women” (AfterEllen), who “is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks…

Protected: There Are Gifts In the Dark. Happy Solstice

Protected: There Are Gifts In the Dark. Happy Solstice

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is “the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queer women” (AfterEllen), who “is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks…

Saucy suggestions for a sexy seasonal sesh

Saucy suggestions for a sexy seasonal sesh

Ok so office parties are out—meeting up with friends is out—family gatherings are possibly now a no-no… What’s left to fill our yuletide yearnings? We may have a suggestion or two! While we have the…

How to put a sparkle in your stocking this year!

How to put a sparkle in your stocking this year!

EROTIC MAGAZINE FOR WOMEN AND COUPLES » NEWS » How to put a sparkle in your stocking this year! Frolicme.com Yes, it is that time of year when we hasten our thoughts on purchasing something…

The joys of deep throating your lover

The joys of deep throating your lover

I remember the first time I had oral sex. Boy was I naïve! He was barely twenty, had been obsessed with porn and now wanted me to get face-fucked. Little me, barely legal, had no…

Build a safe sex bubble and find ways to get some lovin’

Build a safe sex bubble and find ways to get some lovin’

Single people have really had a tough year. Casual hook-ups have been pretty much forbidden, according to government law, intimacy is a thing of the past and most of us can’t remember the last time…

Countdown to Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5!

Countdown to Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5!

Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5 comes out on December 8th! Here’s what’s out there so far. Talking to Bex & Kate on the Dildorks! I’ve been on the Dildorks podcast before, and…

Further Adventures in Photos

Further Adventures in Photos

rife and I are still in Southeast Alaska. Our (my) tentative plan was to be here 3-4 months, but it’s been almost 6 now and we’re still here. Looks like we’re going to stay through…

Protected: I Said Hey, What’s Going On

Protected: I Said Hey, What’s Going On

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is “the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queer women” (AfterEllen), who “is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks…

My Confession by BiHubby cont…

My Confession by BiHubby cont…

21 years after losing my virginity with a girl, I’m suddenly open to losing my virginity to a guy. If you are in the lifestyle you know that ‘single’ guys are more freely available than…

The joys of photographing your lover nude

The joys of photographing your lover nude

Him: “What a joy to play with people who like to capture the moment.” Her: “What a joy to play with people who make every moment worth capturing.” This was an exchange in a group…

What’s Happening in November (& Beyond)

What’s Happening in November (& Beyond)

Suddenly, there is a LOT going on! Here are the upcoming events for November, and a few important dates to save in the next few months. I’m still looking for blogs who want to participate…

如何与伴侣谈脏话

如何与伴侣谈脏话

当涉及到性爱时,我们通常会想到两个主要的孔,但是嘴巴呢? “脏话”一词含糊其词。这是否意味着贬低某人?称他们为肮脏的兼荡妇吗?是浪漫的情色文学,还是“你喜欢的”这样的声誉? 肮脏的谈话有时感觉就像是性的即兴表演,这可能是一项艰巨的任务。别担心,我刚刚崭露头角的性爱战士,这个肮脏的口语不一定要看起来那么难。一个很大的假设是,事先没有任何工作或思想被投入到肮脏的谈话中—在性交的行为中,一时的注意就使人无言以对。这并不是说您必须提前编写脚本,但理想情况下,您应该先了解自己的反应,然后再开始称呼他们为裸露的肮脏妓女。 与菜单上的其他任何性爱物品一样,提前评估兴趣是个好主意-不仅要谈论脏话本身,而且要了解其上下文。对一个人的肮脏话语几乎伤害了另一个人。是的,也许您确实说过一些攻击性的话,但最终会变得swimming畅淋漓,但这是一种高风险的尝试,使某个人处于原本已经高压的状态。 那么您如何开始将脚趾浸入感性的甜蜜无味中而又不会尴尬地尴尬呢? 让我们从基础开始。 什么 问问您的人,他们对脏话的感觉如何。向他们解释肮脏的谈话对您意味着什么,并向他们询问这对他们意味着什么。在上下文和内容上都有各种各样的脏话。首先要了解您两个参考系的位置。 “告诉我你想对我做什么”与“告诉我我多么肮脏”之间有很大的区别。 哪里 他们喜欢在哪里讲脏话?您的美好事物不必保留在性交中。您可以将它们用于性爱,前戏,甚至可以随意穿插一起奔跑。开始以它为借口来表达让您兴奋的非性事物。 您应该如何开始讲脏话? 与学习风格类似,我们所有人都被特殊的感官吸引来唤醒我们。您的人对描述触摸,视觉,声音等的单词的反应最佳吗?尝试每种描述之间的区别,并让他们选择。 例如,触摸:“想象一下,我的指尖沿着皮肤慢慢地走动,使脊椎发抖,并聚集在颈根处。正如您的鸡皮ose上升一样,我的牙齿沉入您的大腿肉中。” 声音:“我想在耳边低声说出你的名字,我的手缠在你的身上,听到你的润滑油饱和部分的声音,而我的手指却在拨弄你最神圣的部分。每个新的角落,我都会将它们折叠成可听见的mo吟声,好像我们是一个人。” 视线:“我赤裸裸地站在您面前,让您目光吞噬我。当您这样做时,我会仔细为您脱衣服。您的胸部因积聚的水分而闪闪发光。当我们的身体紧紧挤压在一起时,我会将自己的这些部分放在自己身上,像战漆一样穿着它。” 什么时候应该引入一些肮脏的谈话? 如果您不喜欢没有网络的肮脏言论自由落体的想法,请从书面入手开始,这比说给您更多的思考和自发性。叙述一下可能在您脑海中奔跑的想法,但您很少大声说话。尽量不要让这些定义如此明确,以便为它们留出空间来调整或响应您的思想流。 “我喜欢考虑您告诉别人在工作中该怎么做。” “当你向我炫耀自己的身体时,这真的让我看到了你的骄傲。” “我喜欢你偷偷摸摸我的想法。” 现在,基本知识已涵盖在内,当您亲自面对这一生该怎么办?您知道如何阅读台词,但是一旦窗帘拉开,您将如何做? 打破冰 衡量兴趣和同意的一种好方法是询问他们说或做过什么的感觉。如:“如果我告诉你只有当我告诉你时才能暨,你会感觉如何?” “如果我叫你一个调皮的女孩怎么办?”除了激动之外,任何事情都可能意味着您必须暂停这个想法并尝试其他事情。 担心微笑或咯咯笑会破坏情绪吗?用它!如果您的性格是傻瓜或笑脸,请利用那邪恶的笑容或年轻的笑声来为自己谋取利益。肮脏的谈话声音不必刻板印象中的性欲。一切都取决于您和您的伴侣的生活。如果他们与您互动,那么他们很可能会享受任何会让您感到满意的东西。 欢迎来到空白处 不要以为您会用顽皮的话填满每一刻的死气。用沉默使你所说的话真正成立。最后但并非最不重要的一点是,放轻松自己。性和性行为已经是一个如此脆弱的地方,增加对话的压力可能感觉很多。它不一定是完美的,承诺尝试,在需要笑时笑,跌倒后再试。 您通过不同类型的不诚实谈话所经历的旅程可能会改变和发展,甚至在合作伙伴之间也可能有所不同。肮脏的谈话可能是探索新的欲望或安全地探索您可能对执行不感兴趣的欲望的绝妙方式。 (我正在查看您的轮奸幻想。)用我们的话语是忍受性唤起的另一种方法,将其添加到您的曲目中,您将被所有汽缸开除。 关于作者 萝拉·简 Lola Jean是性教育者,心理健康专业人士,摔跤手,domme和世界纪录保持者,曾为大量喷水(个展)提供我们所需要和应有的轻松的性教育。通过个人和专业经验,Lola对性,性和纽结有了耳目一新的了解,使个人超越了他们认为自己有能力的地方。

What is it like living with Endometriosis?

What is it like living with Endometriosis?

Endometriosis can be a painful and often debilitating condition where tissues similar to the lining of the uterus (Endometrium) grow outside the womb yet still behave as if they were part of the menstrual cycle—thickening,…

Is “Butch” A Nonbinary Identity?

Is “Butch” A Nonbinary Identity?

My own short answer to the question of whether butch is a nonbinary identity or not is, of course, it depends. Identities are personal. Someone butch might identify as nonbinary, or might not — both are…

Ahead of the Curve: The Documentary Film About Curve Magazine

Ahead of the Curve: The Documentary Film About Curve Magazine

“With a fist full of credit cards, a lucky run at the horse track, and chutzpah for days, Franco Stevens launched Curve, the best-selling lesbian magazine ever published. AHEAD OF THE CURVE tracks the power…

DIY: Create Your Own Fist Dildo

DIY: Create Your Own Fist Dildo

Missed National Fisting Day? Rife here with a storytime DIY fun bonding or gift idea, as the gift giving season is around the corner. So the year is 2018, and Sir gifts me the present…

Happy #InternationalPronounDay!

Happy #InternationalPronounDay!

it’s #InternationalPronounsDay! And in honor, I’ll just gently remind you that my pronouns are they, them, theirs, themself. I prefer the honorific Mx., but Mr. works too, and calling me “sir” is also great (though…

I vote in every election because …

I vote in every election because …

wrote 200 letters (with hunter’s help) for the Vote Forward campaign and mailed them today to voters in Texas, Alaska, and South Carolina. pretty simple: write a letter to a voter who, by some algorithm,…

Pen Play: Online Erotica Writing Workshop Series

Pen Play: Online Erotica Writing Workshop Series

Quarantine and sheltering in place has been intense this year, and as we move into the fall and winter, it looks like we will be continuing to shelter. I don’t know about you, but for…

Protected: Sheltering in September

Protected: Sheltering in September

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is “the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queer women” (AfterEllen), who “is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks…

Sobriety Sestina During COVID-19

Sobriety Sestina During COVID-19

you want to get away from yourself. you tell yourself it’s because of all this, feeling sure you are more sensitive than the rest of the world, so you research all the ways to transform…