Love hormones – how they give us those natural sexy highs

Love hormones – how they give us those natural sexy highs

Love hormones and chemicals associated with our sexual chemistry play a huge part in our drive for lustful gratification and the need to procreate. While we probably know our instincts and biology are endeavouring to…

Penis pleasure – an act of self love

Penis pleasure – an act of self love

What do you call it? Wanking? Tossing? Tugging? Jerking? Spanking the monkey?! (I hate that one). Masturbation is very rarely called by its ‘actual name’ by penis-owners and I’ve always wondered why so many people…

Listen To Your Skin: Erotica Reading [Recording]

Listen To Your Skin: Erotica Reading [Recording]

In March 2021, I read some erotica for the reading series Listen To Your Skin, which has some featured readers and then an open mic where anyone can read. Here’s the recording! I read some…

Ten Erotic Films Better Than 50 Shades of Grey

Ten Erotic Films Better Than 50 Shades of Grey

This is not at all intended to be a comprehensive list — there are hundreds of erotic films and novels out there, many of which are really good. These are, in my opinion, some of…

What I’m Reading, including Felix Ever After

What I’m Reading, including Felix Ever After

I finished a book this week! I’ve been watching shows (Doctor Who and the Great Pottery Throw Down most recently, but it was the Umbrella Academy before that) and watching many YouTube videos of both…

Elust 137 Includes “Creating A D/s Training Wheel”

Elust 137 Includes “Creating A D/s Training Wheel”

It’s been a while since I’ve been part of Elust! Here’s #137 which includes Creating a D/s Training Wheel. Welcome to Elust 137. The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured…

My Confession by Darkcloud 1945

My Confession by Darkcloud 1945

Our wedding day was coming up very soon. Her dress bought, my tux rented, and my wedding party picked. As the day came closer we became more sexually active. We both came from Catholic families…

Pregnancy sex – getting in on

Pregnancy sex – getting in on

Being pregnant is a beautiful thing. You’re in bloom and looking all glowy despite the stomach-churning bouts of morning sickness or the constant and urgent need to empty your bladder that many experience. For lots…

Protected: The Aftermath

Protected: The Aftermath

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is “the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queer women” (AfterEllen), who “is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks…

Creating a D/s Training Wheel

Creating a D/s Training Wheel

rife and I often talk about a “training wheel” when we’re teaching The Protocol Game. A training wheel (as we use the term) is a collection of 5-8 categories of one’s life which are currently…

Five beautiful lesbian films to ignite your lady loving

Five beautiful lesbian films to ignite your lady loving

Just what is it about witnessing the passion between two (or more!) women that drives us wild? Watching the beautiful curves move and writhe in delicious symmetry, long slim fingers sliding into juicy wet pussies,…

Let’s Watch a Porno, Guest Post by Louise Kane

Let’s Watch a Porno, Guest Post by Louise Kane

Content: D/s dynamics, control, orders between Sir/girl dynamic; voyeurism, strap-on sex, objectification, alcohol. I yawned as I padded into the living room. It was only 7pm, but I was already ready for bed and the…

Lets talk about sex

Lets talk about sex

When we think and talk about sex, often the focus is about what’s going on in between our legs. When in fact we know that the biggest sex organ in the body is the brain,…

The healing power of sexual creativity

The healing power of sexual creativity

Jonathan Aldfrith explains what erotic writing and sexual creativity has meant to him, how it helped him recover from major surgery and why he feels it is intrinsically linked to wellbeing. It’s a pretty sobering…

Protected: Stepdown Video: “So How Was Your Title Year?”

Protected: Stepdown Video: “So How Was Your Title Year?”

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is “the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queer women” (AfterEllen), who “is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks…

Best Lesbian Erotica Volume 5 is a Lammy Finalist!

Best Lesbian Erotica Volume 5 is a Lammy Finalist!

Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year Volume 5 is a finalist for a 2021 Lambda Literary Award! I’m so thrilled! much credit of course goes to the incredible writers whose work fills this book: Heart…

Protected: Ostara: Happy Spring

Protected: Ostara: Happy Spring

Published by Sinclair Sexsmith Sinclair Sexsmith (they/them) is “the best-known butch erotica writer whose kinky, groundbreaking stories have turned on countless queer women” (AfterEllen), who “is in all the books, wins all the awards, speaks…

怀孕期间做爱

怀孕期间做爱

您一直在学习晨吐,乳房疼痛,布拉克斯顿·希克斯,堆肥,人工,哺乳期,您的身体将经历的所有变化,但是没有人谈论怀孕期间性生活的乐趣? 您的医生,助产士或卫生专业人员可能已告知您,怀孕期间进行性行为是可以的-除非您有医疗理由另行说明,但是您是否被告知怀孕做爱的质量如何? 怀孕期间的血液量增加40%,给您带来完全的潮红感觉,您身体的每个部位都会有更多的血液包括您猜到的生殖器!万岁。当您的外阴充血时,您可能会发现性唤起变得更容易,您的性欲和敏感性提高到高潮可能甚至感觉更强烈的程度,更令人满意。面对现实吧,晨吐,乳房酸痛和脚踝肿胀确实应该带来一些回报! 您的外阴除了获得所有额外的血液荣耀外,所有性欲区也是如此。因此,想象一下您的伴侣在头皮上抚摸着手指,轻轻拉扯您的头发,将那些美味的性感信号直接传递给阴蒂。您的乳头也将引起人们的关注,因此要使您的性感表演涉及探索和戏弄您以前可能忽略的所有区域。肘部里面?昏厥!就在您的手臂下方,乳房下方?熔化! 与您的新身体一起沉迷和探索。这只是暂时的,所以您最好充分利用美味的新感觉,让自己沉迷于光彩的大地感觉。亲密也可以帮助您更好地了解自己的身体及其反应,与各种事物保持协调,并在您一起成为父母的旅途中真正加强您与伴侣之间的联系。 那么什么时候才是那些性感独裁的最佳时机? 第三个学期–第1-周12 通常来说,这是大多数人都会早上吐病和精疲力竭的时候。当您的体内充满雌激素和孕激素时,巨大的变化(包括情绪波动,气味和味觉的改变以及恶心)肯定会像激情杀手。还有一个事实,那就是实际上要怀孕,这意味着一切,所以如果您根本没有心情,也不要感到惊讶。一次舒适的抚慰和温和的按摩可能现在更适合您。 第二学期–周13- 这是孕吐开始消退,使您精力充沛的时候。您可能会发现荷尔蒙泛红,而其他人提到的“花开”可能会导致刺痛和发红,而不仅仅是脸颊!如果您已经习惯使用避孕药具,那么最终在不担心怀孕的情况下进行性交将是一种巨大的自由,并可以在您自由探索彼此的身体时建立起激情和好奇心。尤其是这个变化多端的身体,拥有光彩夺目的新曲线和灵敏感。 您的肿块可能仍然很小,因此您仍然像怀孕前一样活动自如,并且可能沉浸在比正常乳房更大的荣耀中。激素毕竟可以是一件好事! 在孕晚期,雌激素和孕激素水平持续上升,以支持您成长中的婴儿,因此有益的副作用也随之增加。 外阴和阴蒂的血流量增加会使您感觉更加敏感,并且您可能会注意到阴道润滑增加。您会在那儿感觉多汁,准备进行一些性高潮刺激。 性对怀孕的好处 除非您的医生或助产士另行告诉您,否则性高潮在怀孕期间是安全的。实际上,它们可以为您带来急需的放松,如果您对身体的变化感到不安全,与伴侣的性接触可以增加亲密感和放心。有些人发现自己的性欲无法承受,导致迫切需要满足!您的伴侣可以跟上吗?有些伴侣可能出于多种原因而无法达到相同的水平,他们可能对性生活感到不舒服,因此,请不要自己去做,而要投资自己的手淫技巧! 手淫可能是一种令人难以置信的方式,可以满足您的冲动,按照自己的步调前进,观看色情电影,阅读一些性感的色情故事并让自己陷入光彩深刻的新高潮感中。 第三学期–出生周28 虽然这些好激素可能仍在给您那光彩夺目的怀孕号角,但随着肿块的增大,您可能会感到有些笨拙。寻找舒适的位置是关键,如果这很尴尬,也许可以重新回顾一下自慰的美好时光。 当您临近到期日时,性行为可能会成为一项有价值的资产。 精液中天然存在的合成前列腺素用于某些怀孕的医学引产。尽管有研究表明精液中的前列腺素可以帮助子宫颈软化,但实际上并不能得出结论引产。 但是,研究确实表明,它肯定不会造成伤害。保持PIV性爱的另一个重要原因,请参阅我们的与真正的夫妻Vinna一起拍摄的第一性爱色情影片和安杰洛。不用担心,您的身体只有在身体状况良好且准备就绪后才会开始进行,因此您的活动只会对自然触发的事情有所帮助。如果您的水已经破裂,则不应在阴道性交中使用阴茎。不要忘记您的其他性活动和性功能区-例如,乳头刺激也可以释放催产素等激素,从而减轻身体分娩的负担。 我们都知道,性高潮是放松,缓解疼痛,减轻压力的一种好方法,这是开始迎接婴儿进入世界的美好旅程的理想状态。始终遵循您自己的医生或助产士给您的建议*

My Confession by Molly Carter

My Confession by Molly Carter

My husband and I had been having a love affair with a single woman off and on for about two years. This event, which took place after we hadn’t been together for about six months…

Vaginal dryness, more common than you thought

Vaginal dryness, more common than you thought

One of the things 2020 tried to teach us was having a WAP is a good thing, desirable even. Naturally, the next question on a lot of people’s lips would be, what on earth is…

Stepping Down

Stepping Down

Content: master/slave language in a kink context It’s official: rife & I are stepping down as International Master and slave 2020 this weekend. After an intense year of producing and presenting events online, our time…

Celebrating all women this IWD21

Celebrating all women this IWD21

To celebrate inspirational women this International Women’s Day or #IWD2021 we thought this year we’d share some of the wonderful women we’ve worked with this year in the magazine and how they inspire us! We’ve limited this…

6 hot sex movies featuring the pleasure of sex toys

6 hot sex movies featuring the pleasure of sex toys

Sex toys—or marital aids as they used to be called are an incredible way to enhance your sexual experience—either alone or with your lover—or lovers! There are so many wonderful sex toys available at the…

6 Kink Books by Black Authors

6 Kink Books by Black Authors

In honor of Black History/Futures Month, Here are some books about kink, BDSM, and power dynamics written by Black authors. I’m listing links to Bookshop.org and to Amazon, but please do order them from your…